- Drive
- Show confidence
- Leave your problems outside the room
- Don't be shy
- Be a kid
- Surprise
- Act, don't react
Every guy wants his wife to become a slut in bed, but few act like real men instigating their partner's desires and wants.
Most of the questions that MHM receives are about how to get your woman to take more initiative in bed; to willingly give her good oral sex; to ask for anal sex; or simply how to get her to stop pussyfooting around and loosen up.
Although part of this female locking up is the fault of the women, you, as a man, can contribute a lot to make her more free when it's time for sex. That's why I've put together some tips for you who want your woman to be a slut in bed.
Drive
Imagine a dance, like a tango or gafieira: the woman can only play her role with beautiful artistic movements with a partner who knows how to lead the dance.
In relationships it works the same way. A guy who doesn't know how to lead, who doesn't know what he wants or has no direction, transmits all this insecurity to his partner. Leading doesn't mean controlling, but knowing how to take advantage of the potentialities of everyone involved.
If you want to have a woman delivered, you first need her to trust the direction that the man next door has. From there she can let go, free herself, and give her best.
Show confidence
Would you be able to fully dedicate yourself to a company where you don't believe in its project or future? Hard to do, no! But the same happens with a woman who is next to a guy who doesn't inspire confidence.
Although she likes it and wants to be together, she will not give in 100%, because she will always have a flea behind her ear. Show her your feelings, your desires, be real with her. This will have a positive reflection on her performance in bed.
Leave your problems outside the room
Men have, by nature, the difficulty to develop several fronts of thought at the same time. Recognize your weakness and know how to disconnect when necessary.
Your professional, personal problems, your lack of money, your lack of prospects have to be left outside the bedroom door. From the moment you take your woman to bed, the focus has to be on her, on her body, and on the hard-on you feel.
For if she senses you surrendering to the situation, she will surrender to you, totally.
Don't be shy
You want to have a slut in bed, but when she speaks some obscenity or asks for a personal fetish, you immediately say no and censor her? This will only make her hide her desires, act mechanically and in the most conservative way possible.
For her to suck you like a porn actress, there must be no restraint or modesty between you. For her to ask for and feel pleasure in anal sex, you have to put aside moralistic thoughts and not judge her for her moans and desires.
If you want a woman completely, you first need to put aside the cliché as "woman for dating and woman for fucking".
Be a kid
Leave your good manners and ethics outside the bedroom door. Exercise your primitive instinct, your most hidden desires and wishes at the H-hour. Dedicate yourself to each sex as if it were the first and the last with your partner.
Smell and lick her whole body, breathe in and out with her, want everything and in that moment. Explore every part of her, and let her sweats mingle. By doing so, you will have a much more aroused and willing partner.
Surprise
Routine is boring, and nothing is more boring than taking your relationship based on it, as if it were a public job. Instead of waiting until Friday night to have sex, how about surprising her at work, at lunchtime, and taking her for a quickie at the motel?
Instead of having sex only in the bedroom, how about instigating her, once in a while, to have sex in the club, in the car, or even on an empty street? It is these moments of surprise that feed the couple's horniness, give a new air to the relationship, and make her want you more intensely.
Act, don't react
If you want a woman who is more delivered, you have to know how to discuss sex, bring the subject to the table and present novelties, not wait for her to come to you when she wants to. By anticipating, you show openness to the subject, interest and willingness to innovate, everything she needs to loosen up more.
Acting this way, you can be sure that this will be the best gift you can give your girlfriend. Your relationship (and hard-on) will thank you!